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"When you take the time to draw on your listening-imagination, you will begin to hear this gentle voice at the heart of your life. It is deeper and surer than all the other voices of disappointment, unease, self-criticism and bleakness. All holiness is about learning to listen to the voice of your own soul."
~ John O’Donohue
What is spiritual direction?
My spiritual direction practice is not connected to any particular religious framework; it is about honoring and celebrating wherever you are on your own personal spiritual journey. Those who have not experienced spiritual direction may be curious about what it entails. I welcome your curiosity and your questions.
You might think of spiritual direction as:
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Becoming more present to the sacred- exploring how the sacred is present in your life- exploring the spiritual aspect of being human.
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Practicing deep listening to the "still small voice" within; connecting with inner wisdom.
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Seeking authentic Self. "The Self is the slow, gradual realization of a divine cosmic center in
the unconscious psyche of the individual." (William Walker, DMin)
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Exploring the myths or sacred stories of our lives- the reconnection with what is holy within
ourselves and our lives; the universal, archetypal "hero's journey" of our lives.
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Exploring different ways of thinking/knowing/being- mind knowing, body knowing, heart
knowing.
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Exploring quiet, silence, and contemplative practices. "Joy is a mysterious encounter with
Otherness. As the soul quiets itself, deep joy and consolation become possible." (Don Bisson)
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Exploring symbols, images, metaphors as expressions of soul/Self, as transformative,
transcendent, integrative, healing. This may include the use of sandplay, writing or art
making as spiritual practices.
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Dreamwork, paying attention to Self's expression through dream images and narratives.
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Exploring the concept of Higher Power within a 12-step recovery program.
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Exploring experiences of awe, of encounters with something greater than ourselves.
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Seeking more ongoing connection with inner vitality, life force, our "root vital energy" (Martha
Graham)- what does it mean to be fully alive, in this body, on this earth?
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Exploring what is our life's work or mission- recognizing our soul's desire to make the world a
better place.
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Deepening the practice of mindfulness- of being more present in the directness and rawness of
full experience of the here-and-now.
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Bearing witness to our strengths and our weaknesses- transforming our relationship with
ourselves into one of acceptance and realization of our inherent inner goodness. Finding
beauty and goodness in the broken places.
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Seeking instruction, mentoring, companioning in spiritual and contemplative practices;
cultivating and nurturing a regular and ongoing personal practice.
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Being part of a "soul friendship" (Anam Cara) within which you are witnessed, seen, honored
in the wholeness of who you are; creating a space of "deep refuge". "When you are blessed
with an Anam Cara, ...you have arrived at that most sacred place: home." (John O'Donohue)
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Exploring the spiritual aspects of grief, loss, transition, crisis, trauma.
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Being with end of life concerns and encounters with mortality; exploring ways to face dying
with intentionality and consciousness.
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Exploring paradox and mystery, and the practice of radical acceptance.